Living without
anything tangible to look on is like uncompleted building. Uncompleted building
wholesomely drained the builder financially, physically and emotionally that is
why it remains unaccomplished. Every
human being on this planet likely indirectly travels almost the same path.
Those who failed woefully in success race and died shamefully are like
uncompleted buildings that do not benefit the builder. Living without wealth
and died in a wretched poverty is liken to have not lived at all. The following steps will take you by hand into the
successful and gift you long life:
1. BE HONEST
It is a well known
fact that honesty judges one’s case while he is not around and vindicates him
while present.
It is more harmful when
one is lying to himself thinking he is lying to the public! What do I mean?
Forging information about you in order to get a reputable public post has
become an order of the day in this ravage world. Using fake credentials to secure white
collar job is no more rhetorical in almost all the industry in the world today.
Feigning to be wealthy in order to get married to a woman of importance has
gone viral in every city these days. All
these are noting but act of dishonesty.
As long as the sun
rises in the morning and sets in the evening, nothing that occurs under its roof
shall remain for ever hidden. Undoubtedly, everything we do in secret will one
day be uncovered. And when it is
uncovered, definitely two things terrible always happen to the perpetrator. First, it costs you the present position. Second, this is the most harmful part of
dishonesty. It will completely ruin your future. You might have got it right
with insincerity this time but, you will never deceive the same people, the set
of people who might be the only source of your success, greatness and
prosperity to get what you want any longer.
If any one wants to
be successful and live long he must learn to be honest. Honesty is my number one key of success,
prosperity and greatness in life. It
will do me no good if I keep back every step that skyrocketed me into the known
people; the successful from you. There
are many ways you may apply to get rich and live long but these are solely my
pathfinders into greatness. I am sharing it with happiness!
2. DON’T STEAL
Stealing satisfies
momentarily. People who live by stealing
are always found wanting. They are never satisfied! The more they steal the
higher their problems increment. For
instance, there was a man called “ANINI,” a notorious armed robber from
Nigeria. There was nothing he never
stole. No bank he never operated. He
stormed almost all the crony and cranny of Nigerian valuable assets. Far beyond expected, he became the enemy of
the public; then, Nigerian authority issued warrant for his arrest. Sooner than
no time, he was hunted and sent to a land of see no more. Today, he became a
repulsive story instead of positive legacy. He left no impacting legacy for his
linage.
Therefore, my dear
readers, if any one of you really wants to make it in life he must learn to put
on disciplinary vet to stay pure from stealing otherwise he may smell
accidental fortune but will never last to enjoy the destined fortunes. If you
want to live long you must as well learn not to be candidate of stealing.
Always ensure and
learn to be candidate of sincerity, purity, straightforward, honesty and
self-opportunity-creator.
THESE ARE FEW OF WHAT
STEALING CAN DO TO YOU:
He who steals loses
people’s favour.
He who steals misses
the blessings of God.
He who steals is
liable to die young.
He who steals becomes
enemy to the public.
He who steals values
not the future; to which he may be great.
He who steals lacks
concentration, focus and determination.
He who steals values
only the moment, not tomorrow which holds almost 98% of his success.
He who steals is 99%
close the grave.
Obviously, if the
entire foregoing list is found in one’s life, who are you? You are nothing but
a complete failure, a dead man walking among the living.
I could vividly
remember while 18 and above, my dad would call all of us to the sitting room
after our dinner. He would say a lot of things, even both the ones my heart,
mind and understanding as a result of its tenderness couldn’t assimilate. But being a brilliant child, I gathered a lot,
of which these are few of them. Among all he said about how to be successful
and live long, I picked three major ones as my watch words. These are:
Be honest
Don’t steal
Don’t make love to
another man’s wife.
I have lived by this
and I am now enjoying its impact in my life.
3. DON’T MAKE LOVE TO ANOTHER MAN’S WIFE
The most deadly act
of all time in the neighborhoods is to sleep with another man’s wife.
Writing about this
topic, it’s something I would love to skip, but as a mandate to not allow repetition
of a life cost incident, I picked my pen to at least drop some words on it.
When you see a life
cost incident, at the moment it is called unsafe condition. But when it has
been reported in order for people to not fall victim, and someone still finds himself
doing it, it is called unsafe behavior.
Perhaps, unsafe behavior can lead to accident; and accident can lead to
death.
Around 2002, I
witnessed this deadly act. My elder brother who was following the way of the
world nearly sent himself to the land of the dead if not that God was with him.
He kept making love to one Yoruba man’s
wife until this fateful day he met his partial doom. While both of them were
inside, the woman’s husband arrived home and sensed his wife was with a man. Though
before that very day, he has been suspecting them. He coked his gun, forced the
door opened. Luckily for my brother, when he noticed that someone was forcing
the door, he made his way through window, though the man shot him at a
distance. He ran away with the bullet on his shoulder. As that was not enough,
the Yoruba man charmed him. He suffered this for years. After my parents took
him to several places he finally survived it.
My dear readers, if you
really want to live long, never dare to sleep with another man’s wife.
4. AVOID DEBT
It is a well known
fact that those who live by debt have nothing to save for their future.
This is just the
secret of all successful men and women:
Every successful man doesn’t
live by debt rather he lives by determination, focus, concentration and
persistence. It is a bit of sacrifice
and habit of self-discipline to be free from debt. Debt, in actual sense is
something we can easily do without, but when it has become a habit, it’s very
complicated to do without it. And that is the problem 95% of individuals are
having these days. They have made it a habit. To those set of people, even
though there is money in their possession, they will still purchase something
on credit. Doing that gives them extra joy; they don’t know that is not joy but
future destruction. These set of people, are the people that do not have target
for future why because as the debt keeps accumulating, the creditors expand
their disturbance to get the money back.
For instance, your
monthly salary is N50, 000, and you owe about N35, 000. At the end of the
month, you disburse your cash as follow: Debt----N35, 000, House Rent----N3,
000, Food Stuff----N10, 000, Bills----N2, 000, Save----N00.00, Urgent
saving-----N00.00.
Now, look at the
above disbursement critically, if one continues like this when do you think he
will become somebody in life? Absolutely, he will remain poor for ever if he
doesn’t change.
Therefore, if you are
one of those who bite more than they can chew, it is high time you wake up and
disengage yourself now. At least, end of
every month you must have something to push into your saving account. And for
you to do this, you must learn to avoid debt. I know, it may not be easy with
those who do petty jobs, but it only takes self-discipline, decision and
determination.
5. FEED WELL
I don’t want to say
much about this as we all know the relevance of feeding very well. Always make sure you don’t miss the
three-square-meal a day. Ensure you don’t eat same type of food for days. If
possible, try eating protein in the morning, starch and vitamin in the
afternoon and carbohydrate in the evening.
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