What Are The Consequences When A Man Is Vigorously Overwhelmed By Loneliness? See The Answers Here

Before proceeding, we would definitely have to ascertain what actually loneliness is all about and what effect it has on a man who is vigorously overwhelmed by it.


loneliness can be seen as a feeling of depression resulting from being all alone. In other words, we can say it is the condition of being solitude, lonely, unfrequented and seclusion.

Having known the meaning of loneliness, beyond every unreasonable doubt you will agree with me that it's indisputably has negative impacts than positives. But, in line with an ancient fact and conventional wisdom, whatsoever that has advantages must as well has disadvantages. Therefore, sooner than shortly we shall be looking at both sides to see the surpassing area.

It's woefully a shame/pity to those whose untapped talents intransitively lie perpetually dead in the land of the hades simply because they ignorantly gave in to loneliness. Sometimes, I see people saying that loneliness is natural; and I always confront them that there is nothing natural about loneliness. It's all about feeling and condition! And condition can, if the person in question is willing be changed at any point in time. So, anything that can be changed within your power can never be said to be natural. You can never cheat or change sleep. That is nature! Take for instance; you were asked to stay indoors throughout the day by someone but you were not shut in. And it occurs that you were pressed; but simply because you were asked not to step outside you blindly and ignorantly messed yourself up with excreta. What will you call yourself? Fool of the highest order! You had the potential and all the possibility to would have majestically walked into the rest room and free yourself but you failed to. Obviously, the same thing applies to when one is in a state of loneliness. When you begin to feel lonely, indulge yourself in something active immediately in order to avert its unfolding effects at that moment.

Here are few but capital negative impacts of loneliness:
1. Intensive loneliness can lead one to depression and commit suicide.
2. Loneliness leads one to always plan evil. There is a saying which says that an idle mind is a devil's workshop.
3. It leads one to feel empty of himself
4. It causes low self-esteem
5. It leads to altered brain functionality
6. It leads to poor decision making
7. It leads to antisocial behaviour
8. It causes cardiovascular disease and stroke
9. It increases stress levels
10. It decreases memory and learning capability
11. It leads one to alcoholism, womanizing and drug abuse
12. It leads one to miss out opportunity
13. It leads one to engage in masturbation
14. It leads one to failure
15. Finally, it's absolutely a recipe for backwardness.

However, as I said earlier; that what has disadvantage must also has advantage. But, exceeding all sincerity I must confess that I do not know much the advantages of loneliness. Pardon please! There is always something about me when it comes to writing. In my writing, if you are very good in observation, you will notice that I always do use my experience and myself to quantify and expantiate my motives to drive home my message.

Personally, I am not to convinced about advantages of loneliness; so I want to quickly outline these two advantages of loneliness:

1. Loneliness breeds unbeatable and lucrative ideas. What differentiate the poor from the rich is their thinking velocity. Rich people always think of new ideas that bring forth good return. They think while they are always all alone. They meditate in a comfortable ambience. Therefore, we can say being idle is not as bad as many would think or conclude.
2. Loneliness can help one to seek God in a deeper way. It is no strange that these days people are so busy that they often set aside little time for God. When you are alone, you completely have undivided attention to hear from God. It is this time God use to speak to us in his own language which if we are not connected it can never be heard or understood. I brought this point for what I have learnt about Jesus in the gospel readings. Most of the time Jesus wanted to speak to his father and hear from him, he usually went to a lonely place. Therefore, my dear reader, being alone can help you tap sometimes gift and power from nature.

Here is my candid advice to all readers of this article: "According to the law of cause and effect, whatsoever happens in this life happens for a reason or reasons. There is a reason behind every occurrence. Nothing happens for nothing. Something always happens for something".

It is not bad to be in a state of loneliness; but what makes it bad is when you refuse to get out of it. Never give in to idleness, loneliness and inferiority complex. It is as well not a bad thing to fall, but it's as bad as anything when you fall and you refuse to rise up again.

OBEYA FRIDAY
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